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Friday, January 30, 2015

Bikers Against Child Abuse......Thank You

Thank you our new family........

Domestic Violence Awareness this Superbowl Sunday

On Sunday while many are enjoying this American Pastime Game tradition like Football . 1 in every 3 woman attending or  watching this game will on Sunday be a victim of Physical  and Sexual  abuse. The excitement and disappoint of his favorite team winning or losing .The factors of too much alcohol, beer cocktails and whiskey  . Woman its a dangerous mix if you live continually daily with abuse. This day becomes more dangerous and could be your last day. Remember alcohol makes him worst monster and you know what happens if he gets upset or even excited. One wrong move , or gestures could set him off to his daily hate against you.    **** From my own experience giving advise to those who live in fear daily. No one has the right to harm you.*****   Remember watch the NOMORE.ORG Commercials  and if in need of immediate help call 
Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline
Support, resources and advice for your safety
1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
  • 24/7, 365 days a year. Bilingual advocates on hand.
  • thehotline.org

Be alert, careful and watch your surroundings , most of all stay alive.









Thursday, January 29, 2015

SUPER BOWL - VIDEO


I am now looking to each and "EVERYONE" of you to support Clara Colon and I in the "FIGHT" against Police Officer Involved Domestic Violence/Domestic Violence.  Are you going to come out and support us?  Are you going to share our videos in "SUPPORT OF SURVIVORS?"   How can Clara and I continue to help when, no one wants to help us?

Author Rosaura Torres

Tuesday, January 27, 2015

WHAT IS GASLIGHTING

AS A SURVIVOR OF SEVERE PHYSICAL ABUSE AND TORTURE. MY EXPERIENCE WAS ALSO GAS LIGHTING.  FOR MANY YEARS I THOUGHT I WAS CRAZY ....THE ABUSER CONTROLLED MY MIND.

GASLIGHTING IS ABUSE

 What is Gaslighting?
hotline-gaslighting“You’re crazy – that never happened.”
“Are you sure? You tend to have a bad memory.”
“It’s all in your head.”

Does your partner repeatedly say things like this to you? Do you often start questioning your own perception of reality, even your own sanity, within your relationship? If so, your partner may be using what mental health professionals call “gaslighting.”
This term comes from the 1938 stage play Gas Light, in which a husband attempts to drive his wife crazy by dimming the lights (which were powered by gas) in their home, and then he denies that the light changed when his wife points it out. It is an extremely effective form of emotional abuse that causes a victim to question their own feelings, instincts, and sanity, which gives the abusive partner a lot of power (and we know that abuse is about power and control). Once an abusive partner has broken down the victim’s ability to trust their own perceptions, the victim is more likely to stay in the abusive relationship.
There are a variety of gaslighting techniques that an abusive partner might use:
Withholding: the abusive partner pretends not to understand or refuses to listen. Ex. “I don’t want to hear this again,” or “You’re trying to confuse me.”
Countering: the abusive partner questions the victim’s memory of events, even when the victim remembers them accurately. Ex. “You’re wrong, you never remember things correctly.”
Blocking/Diverting: the abusive partner changes the subject and/or questions the victim’s thoughts. Ex. “Is that another crazy idea you got from [friend/family member]?” or “You’re imagining things.”
Trivializing: the abusive partner makes the victim’s needs or feelings seem unimportant. Ex. “You’re going to get angry over a little thing like that?” or “You’re too sensitive.”
Forgetting/Denial: the abusive partner pretends to have forgotten what actually occurred or denies things like promises made to the victim. Ex. “I don’t know what you’re talking about,” or “You’re just making stuff up.”
(Source)
Gaslighting typically happens very gradually in a relationship; in fact, the abusive partner’s actions may seem harmless at first. Over time, however, these abusive patterns continue and a victim can become confused, anxious, isolated, and depressed, and they can lose all sense of what is actually happening. Then they start relying on the abusive partner more and more to define reality, which creates a very difficult situation to escape.
In order to overcome this type of abuse, it’s important to start recognizing the signs and eventually learn to trust yourself again. According to author and psychoanalyst Robin Stern, Ph.D., the signs of being a victim of gaslighting include:
  • You constantly second-guess yourself.
  • You ask yourself, “Am I too sensitive?” multiple times a day.
  • You often feel confused and even crazy.
  • You’re always apologizing to your partner.
  • You can’t understand why, with so many apparently good things in your life, you aren’t happier.
  • You frequently make excuses for your partner’s behavior to friends and family.
  • You find yourself withholding information from friends and family so you don’t have to explain or make excuses.
  • You know something is terribly wrong, but you can never quite express what it is, even to yourself.
  • You start lying to avoid the put downs and reality twists.
  • You have trouble making simple decisions.
  • You have the sense that you used to be a very different person – more confident, more fun-loving, more relaxed.
  • You feel hopeless and joyless.
  • You feel as though you can’t do anything right.
  • You wonder if you are a “good enough” partner.
 
 

Please find courage and leave.

Please woman find the courage and leave, your going to save your life and life of your children. Seek help and become active in helping others. STOP THE VIOLENCE LETS END DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.

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Sunday, January 25, 2015

LEO's Karma is collecting all your sins!!!!!!!!!!

2 miracles have happened with this case.
1. The FBI actually raided and arrested this cop at his home
2. He was suspended WITHOUT pay
Both of these are completely unheard of for cops. Is the tide changing? ~ Story/Video -- http://bit.ly/1yGkTT3
Via - - Police the Police - (A Community Project)



Bayonne, NJ– Officer Domenico Lillo of the Bayonne Police Department in New Jersey was actually raided by FBI agents and arrested on Friday morning in connection with a 2013 case of police brutality.
Read more at http://thefreethoughtproject.com/cop-raided-arrested-pepper-spraying-children-disfiguring-handcuffed-man-flashlight/#xzav3JBu744B404W.99

Finally !!!!Justice is Coming

Get 'em!
NJ,NY,CT, PA, CA residents read this
Chris Christie has been named as a defendant in two cases that are part of series of lawsuits across the country where serious concerns about violations of...
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Saturday, January 24, 2015

Attention NJ Residents.




All Defrauded New Jersey Family Court Victims Should Call Me (Greg) or Email Me ASAP to Join an Official Federal Filing This Friday. We Need Numbers of People for this effort. This is NOT a Protest. It is a Legal Show of Force. 201-220-4887 groberts@fclu.org

Thank You Jackson Police Dept...NJ

I would like to give my 100% appreciation to the Jackson Township Police Dept. Jackson, NJ . I came to your department yesterday with a victim of domestic violence and stalking. The officer at the window, Thank you for your kind and understanding of my fellow sister.  Officer thank you for being human and having a kind heart for Victims of Domestic Violence. Sir, you have the correct departmental procedures in which you follow the law. Finally , I could really state i have meet a good officer and that makes me happy.

This officer advised us to return to Ocean County Courthouse, in Toms River to room 175. The lord God is good, and the presiding Judge granted her the temporary and included her child.

As of today, another life is safe and will continue to move forward.


Thank you again Jackson Police Dept....

Friday, January 23, 2015

LOL

Smile  Jackass

I love our President...Great state of the Union Speech